Showing posts with label Culture. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Culture. Show all posts

Sunday, January 29, 2017

What is Community?



Great-Great-Grandfather Gerhart (left) with friends

Webster defines community as society in general. This seems very rather impersonal to me. I like the definitions that defines community as “the condition of living with others, friendly association and fellowship." Most Americans think of community as a place where they feel wanted and safe. Unfortunately with the unrest and turmoil within the world today, some still search for this sense of belonging and safety. 

The idea of a utopian community is not new. There have been more than a few experimental communities in our history. Some have remained such as the Shaker’s community; others are long gone. Communes that had a social purpose such as a “service commune” had great staying power, such as the Koinonia Farm in Georgia. Founded in 1942, Koinonia tried to bring racial integration and farm technology to the rural Southern poor. In 1970, there were 2,000 communes, more than at any other time in history as people strived for a better way of living in society away from the city’s hustle and bustle. They wanted a simpler life, a more natural life than what the bright lights and machinations could give them. The most extreme experiment was the Oneida colony. The Oneida colony was founded by Humphrey Noyes in New York State in…. This group practiced a form of group marriage. It was the most radical and controversial utopian community in United States history. Noyes called his group “Perfectionists.” This group started out as a bible study group in Putney, Vermont. Followers believed that Christ demanded and promised perfection on Earth. At its peak, more than 200 people belonged to the commune. They practiced “complex marriage” or what may be more akin to what the 1970 hippies may have called “free love.” In his pamphlet, “Slavery and Marriage,” Noyes stated that exclusiveness in a love relationship was un-Christian. He also felt that marriage w as demeaning to women because it forced them into unwanted pregnancies and menial work. Children were raised communally in Oneida instead of by their parent. 

After failing at farming, the Oneida commune turned to manufacturing steel traps, travel bags and silverware which also contributed to their income which was also shared communally and business was ran by committee. Eventually due to public condemnation of their sexual eccentricity, they were forced to give up their group marriages, and many entered into traditional marriages. They gave up communal ownership of property and became a joint-stock company in 1881. Founder Noyes, under prosecution for adultery, fled to Canada. Currently they have continued  as one of the world’s largest designers and sellers of stainless steel and silverplated cutlery and tableware, operating in the U.S. Canada, Mexico and Latin America, where they market and distribute tabletop products such as flatware, dinnerware, glassware, kitchen tools and gadgets. 

Now in the digital age of the 2000s, this yearning is again making itself known. People are returning to farming, gardening, recycling, reusing as they learn to take care of the Earth’s resources and build a better community for their children and in doing so, sowing the seeds of regeneration in a world that had seemingly been lost in the technological bubble. People are learning to use technology as a tool but not as a crutch. As people strive to keep their sense of community, which at one time was very narrow and local, we now have to realize that we live in a global community and that, at humans, we all share common goals and needs; among them, adequate healthy food, clean air and clean water, safety from the elements and from oppression. These we need and want to sustain us and give us the ability to choose one’s own actions and fulfill ones’ dreams of a better future for ourselves, our children and grandchildren and even great-grandchildren as well. And as we do live in this global community, we should want this for our neighbors as well in the spirit of brotherhood and sisterhood. These are the highest ideals of the utopian community. It will remain to be seen if any society can achieve all of those goals on a collective scale but even so, we have to try. We are all one big family on this big, blue marble. Let’s try to be a happy one. This may sound like a Pollyanna way of thinking but not a bad idea if you ask me. For more information about current communal living experiments, “Intentional Living or the “Co-Living” models, visit The Fellowship for Intentional Community. Namaste! - Helen

Saturday, April 30, 2016

Letters From Home

Goldie Cummins
In this digital age, the idea of sending a message by snail mail probably does not thrill you, especially if the message has to be delivered quickly. Instant message vs three days? Not going to happen. But I can tell you that people still love letters. I found this out by searching the term "old letters." There are hundreds if not thousands of websites devoted to old letters of all sorts.

I like the idea of permanency of a written letter, it guarantees that your words will be preserved, sometimes for hundreds of years. A letter can bring a sense of closeness that an email cannot and can solidify professional relationships. If you have ever written a letter, you know that it gives both the writer a sense of self-expression, you have created something. On an societal level, letters preserve history as well as contributing to the protection and conservation of literacy and language.  Letters have been around since early antiquity. Hopefully letter-writing will not go out of style.

For more information on letters, there are plenty of sites online. Information for this post was found at Wikipedia

Below is a letter written to my mother from my grandmother. To me, it gave me a connection to her, as my photographs do. This was written in 1961. She passed away when I was 15.

I will try to post something new about once a month.  Have a wonderful day! Marie

Saturday, October 10, 2015

Autumn Gold and harvest home

The greenery of summer is winding down, but don't let it get you down. Now is the time for the richness of golden yellow and orange-red leaves of autumn; with it cozying up with hot cider or hot cocoa after a long day, with the abundance of the harvest of fall produce found at farmers markets or fruit stands. To me autumn is synonymous with family, hearth and home. This is the true gold of autumn.-Helen

Saturday, January 25, 2014

Why We Should All Care What the "Biebs" is Doing to himself.

Unless you have been under a rock this week, you probably have heard that Justin Bieber was arrested for drag-racing in Miami, Florida recently. It seems obvious to anyone following his career that lately he has been in a downward spiral;  from wildly talented pre-teen that sent scores of teeny-boppers screaming and crying just to hear the sound of his name; to saggy-pants-wearing, tattooed sullen-faced, in-your face little thug wanna be who seems to think that his money and his talent will make him above the law and whoever stands in his way of having fun.

So why should we care? Isn't he just another Hollywood get-rich heartthrob destined for rehab? It certainly seems that way. After a while we just start looking the other way. But is there a reason we should care about this young man who doesn't seem to know that his path is destined for disaster? Maybe even death, of himself, or others with the rampant drug use, disregard for other people's safety or property.

There are at least three reasons we should care, even if we are not fans of his.  For starters, even though right now it doesn't appear that he is thinking too straight in  terms of what he is doing to himself, millions of teens and young adults are watching what he is doing, either emulating him or trashing him. Both are problematic. I see some really hateful, horrible things said about him in comments and that deplorable. Even though we will probably never get near the young man, he is a human, worthy of at least that kindness.At the other side of the coin are those young impressionable girls who think that what he has done is still okay, but if they think what Justin is doing is okay, what sort of boys would they date?

Finally we should care because the media is not going to give this a rest for a long time coming. We are going to be subjected to the antics of the "Biebs" for a long time and since misery loves company, the worse he gets, the more the media is going to write about him.  Long story short, the quicker he makes a recovery, gets himself back on track, the sooner we will not have to watch the train wreck that is his life right now.


Thursday, November 21, 2013

Thursday, October 17, 2013

Spam, Spam, Spamity, Spam (Opinion, ie. rant)

Jeese.  I've been talking to my other blogging friends, a few who have just started up their blogs, some who have been doing it for a while. The discussion centered on how to avoid getting their blogs bombarded with spammers who want you to click on their link.  I just don't

Thursday, October 3, 2013

Celebrities VS Criminals: Who Gets the Most Air-Time on the Web?


Its 8:00 a.m. You turn on your computer or your phone with every intention of finishing off that report or updating your blog or website. But 

Thursday, August 8, 2013

Welcome to My Blog!


Welcome! My blog started out last year with an eye towards following what was currently trending in the media, in culture and technology with with some extras thrown in just for fun. As of April 23, 2015, in an effort to focus on what is really important to most of us, families, friends, and just plain living; I have changed course and will focus on a blog that celebrates families, community, culture, history especially family histories, and often humorous tidbits as they come my way. Hopefully you will find something enjoyable about the new format - Marie Helena